In Egypt, the upcoming marriage is most often agreed upon by the parents. If the children themselves choose a partner, the parents’ opinion is still taken into account.
Young people get acquainted in the presence of relatives, if they like each other, then the parents begin to discuss material issues:
- Does the groom have an apartment;
- If there is no apartment, then when will the groom buy it;
- What is the ransom amount the groom intends to pay for the bride;
- What is the dowry of the bride.
If both parties have reached an agreement on material issues, an official engagement is announced. If the parents have not agreed among themselves, then they look for a more suitable candidate for their child. During the engagement, the groom gives the bride a wedding ring, bracelets, a necklace, which speaks of his wealth and generosity. The engaged communicate in public places or under the close supervision of relatives, so that the honor of the girl is not tarnished even by an innocent kiss on the cheek.
Marriage among Egyptians is not only love, but also an agreement and partnership. The official part of the wedding ceremony is the signing of a marriage contract in front of a notary, during which the young couple reads the Koran. The contract specifies all the wishes of the future spouses, and also includes a list of the property to be transferred. After signing the marriage contract, the celebration begins.
Egyptian weddings feature specially prepared theatrical performances. Men and women dance separately. Belly dancers and male dancers performing dances with swords and lit torches are also invited. Dances with candelabra are popular.
Guests do not give the young couple anything. The girl’s parents buy her everything she needs long before marriage.
Flirting or displays of affection are frowned upon in the country. Cohabitation before marriage is not accepted in Egypt. If the police are informed that a couple is illegally living together, the offenders face a fine and arrest for up to 3 months.